trauma-informed leadership · for teams & leaders

leadership shouldn’t cost your peace.

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Trainings, podcast and culture consulting for first-gen leaders and the organizations that depend on them.

When we heal, our community heals with us ✳

When we heal, our community heals with us ✳

Atalie Oliva has long dark hair and is wearing all black clothing. She sits crouched on a polished concrete floor in a bright, modern office space and is smiling warmly at the camera.

Hi, I’m Atalie

Certified Trauma-Informed Coach. Former HR Practitioner. Energy Healer.


Eldest daughter of immigrants raised in South Gate, California.

I grew up carrying expectations, responsibility, and pressure early in life.

My own healing journey taught me something most professional development spaces overlook.

Healing is leadership.

I believe bitterness is medicine. It reveals where systems, workplaces, and even our own patterns need attention and change.

My work helps you turn that awareness into healthier ways of leading.

you’re in good company

for organizations · para tu equipo

bring the bitter woman in-house

Workshops & Trainings

tools for the hard conversations

trauma-informed sessions for teams and managers, from one workshop to a series.

90 min- full day

Leadership Development

grow leaders without burning them out

cohorts and sponsored coaching for emerging and first-gen leaders.

3 – 6 months

Culture Consulting

build a healthier workplace

We help organizations improve the policies, practices, and systems that shape how people experience work.

assessment → implementation

en sus palabras —

  • "The trauma informed approach and the format of how the Bitter Woman works helps to recognize and dismantle toxic approaches we may be accustomed to."

    Clarissa Cota, Founder/Co-Owner
    My Comunidad Foundation

  • "The Bitter Woman Network LLC is effective in helping organizations open up for communication, building trust, and offering tools to address difficult conversations and situations. Having these tools allows for better leadership and management of an organization. "

    Assistant General Manager, City of Los Angeles

  • "I would say that if you want to really make an impact. No, seriously, really care about your community and want someone that understands and takes great care in each step of the process to develop a workshop or event with you, contact The Bitter Woman. I look forward to future collaborations!"

    Rocio Flores, Founder
    Brillantes Emprendedoras Latinas de Los Angeles (B.E.L.L.A)

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